The holiday season is coming to a close. The year is just a few days from being categorized as just another piece of history. Often this time of year brings us to a point in our lives where we reflect. We reflect on the things gone wrong, the things that have gone right and the things we hope to accomplish in the future...
It's been a trying year. My husband was out of work for almost half of it. But I can honestly say that it wasn't too awful. You learn to live on a lot less and be grateful for what you have.
Although finical difficulties can result in an overwhelming amount of familial distress, it can also result in some unexpected glorious times. My husband and I have been together for 7 years, married for 4. Never have we had the opportunity to spend so much time with each other or with our children. I am truly appreciative that my husband's time at home gave him the opportunity to watch our youngest child grow and develop in a way he never got to experience with our oldest. Time can't be recovered. Life only gives you one shot at the "firsts" and I thank God that we got to experience so many firsts as a family. From the milestones a toddler tackles to the puffing out of the chest as the teenage boy makes that awkward transition into a young man. Life is good .
As far as the future, who knows what it holds. Life is so full of uncertainty. I have learned that for sure. I can only hope that we can continue to remain, and grow to be an even stronger family. Of course, there are things that I hope the new year will bring, but as I reflect on the past, those "things" are of a different caliber this time. And THAT is a blessing.
4 comments:
Happy Holidays to you Nina! Here's to a wonderful 2010! ; )
Anali~Cheers!
It is odd how with each trial comes a benefit in some way. It is wonderful that you and your husband are both able to be home with your new son at such an important time, and that at this pivotal time in your teenaged son's life, he can have the benefit of his dad's constant presence as well. And while hardship can often stress a marriage, you're fortunate that the strength of your relationship weathered these times, and both kids can see what it means to be truly partners in a rough situation. It will mean a lot when they both have to step up in their own lives that they had strong role modeling.
Nance~you make me teary eyed...but that isn't a bad thing :)
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